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You have so much to offer and you long to share your life with someone, yet you keep hitting a brick wall when it comes to love.
You either struggle to meet anyone you want to date or you fall for emotionally unavailable people, commitment-phobes, toxic partners or flakey guys who don't value you or treat you right. When you do meet emotionally available people, you find them dull, boring or 'too nice'. Whether you are disillusioned by online dating, grieving a life that hasn't gone to plan or wondering why everyone else seems to find a match while you continue to struggle, you are not alone and I am here to help. I have supported people all over the world to transform their relationship patterns, overcome their blocks and form long-lasting partnerships. With my support, clients who once described themselves as "hopeless cases" when it came to relationships have gone on to get engaged, get married, start a family and/or build a home with their partner. |
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I work with men, women and people who are committed to change, willing to be vulnerable and ready to invest in their transformation. I work with single people and those already in partnerships.
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"YOU OPENED MY MIND" |
"I FEEL LIKE A DIFFERENT PERSON" |
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Engaged!
"I'm delighted to say that S and I got engaged recently. As you said, it only takes one. I'm so glad I took your advice to be present at the event and give him a chance, by being authentic and getting to understand him more. I shake up his world in a good way and he is a healing balm to mine. It seems we are a complimentary fit and we're also emotionally mature enough to navigate any differences that arise” – Kim |
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If you are confused by the dating process, bemused by your relationship track record and wondering why everyone else seems to find a partner while you continue to struggle, you are not alone. Many of my clients were in the same position. As was I.
By my early 40s, I had a great career, a lovely North London flat and all the freedom and independence I could wish for. I'd enjoyed my single days, my flirtations and flings, as well as some longer relationships, but I'd also experienced years of dysfunctional dating and periods of sadness and loneliness. |
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Is this it? I asked. What have I been striving for? And why on earth can't I make a relationship work?
I knew I wanted love and companionship in my life. I knew I wanted to be in a committed relationship with someone. But I kept choosing the wrong guys. I kept falling for emotionally unavailable men and rejecting the available ones. Fast forward to the present day and I've been in a relationship with a wonderful man for 12 years and married to him for seven years. He makes me laugh every day and we have built a beautiful life together by the sea in Dorset. So what changed? Everything changed. I went on a journey of personal transformation and began to lay my healthy foundations for love. I invested in myself and in the support I needed to identify where I was going wrong. I understood the roots of my self-sabotaging behaviours and unhealthy patterns, committed to change, found the courage to do things differently and stepped forwards into a new life and a healthy way of dating and relating. |