LOVE COACHING
BREAK THROUGH YOUR RELATIONSHIP BLOCKS
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You're attractive, with a fun personality, a great career, a lovely home, plenty of friends and all the freedom and independence you could wish for.
You know you have plenty to offer, yet you keep hitting a brick wall when it comes to love. You just can't seem to meet the right person. You're drawn to unavailable types or to people who won't commit or you can't bring yourself to fancy the available people - you find them boring or too nice. You've run out of ideas about where to meet potential partners, grown disillusioned with online dating and become tired of meetup groups. Maybe you've lost hope. You may also be grieving a life that hasn't gone to plan. Maybe you're childless-by-circumstance, not by choice, or are still hoping to have children but feel you are running out of time to create the family you long for. Or perhaps you have a background of trauma and want to stop your past from sabotaging your present. |
You don't need someone to complete you but you'd love a partner to go on adventures with, to snuggle up to and to build a home with. You're tired of doing everything on your own. Why is it taking so long?
If this is you, you are not alone.
I've been there. By my early 40s, I had a great career, a beautiful North London flat and all the freedom and independence I'd ever longed for. I'd enjoyed my single days, my flirtations and flings, as well as some longer relationships, but I'd also experienced years of dysfunctional dating and periods of sadness and loneliness.
Is this it? What have I been striving for? And why on earth can't I make a relationship work?
I knew I wanted love and companionship in my life. I knew I wanted to be in a committed relationship with someone - a real partnership. I was also running out of time to have the family I'd always imagined I'd have.
But I kept choosing the wrong guys and rejecting the good ones. Online dating was driving me mad but nor did I meet anyone suitable face-to-face.
Fast forward to now and I'm married to a wonderful man, a man who makes me laugh every day, a man I call my best friend, and we have built a beautiful life together by the sea in Dorset.
So what changed? Everything changed.
I went on a journey of personal transformation. I invested in myself and in the professional support I needed in order to change and I began to look inside myself. With help, I identified where I was going wrong, understood the roots of my self-sabotaging behaviours and unhealthy patterns, committed to change, found the courage to do things differently and stepped forwards into a new life and a healthy way of dating and relating.
If this is you, you are not alone.
I've been there. By my early 40s, I had a great career, a beautiful North London flat and all the freedom and independence I'd ever longed for. I'd enjoyed my single days, my flirtations and flings, as well as some longer relationships, but I'd also experienced years of dysfunctional dating and periods of sadness and loneliness.
Is this it? What have I been striving for? And why on earth can't I make a relationship work?
I knew I wanted love and companionship in my life. I knew I wanted to be in a committed relationship with someone - a real partnership. I was also running out of time to have the family I'd always imagined I'd have.
But I kept choosing the wrong guys and rejecting the good ones. Online dating was driving me mad but nor did I meet anyone suitable face-to-face.
Fast forward to now and I'm married to a wonderful man, a man who makes me laugh every day, a man I call my best friend, and we have built a beautiful life together by the sea in Dorset.
So what changed? Everything changed.
I went on a journey of personal transformation. I invested in myself and in the professional support I needed in order to change and I began to look inside myself. With help, I identified where I was going wrong, understood the roots of my self-sabotaging behaviours and unhealthy patterns, committed to change, found the courage to do things differently and stepped forwards into a new life and a healthy way of dating and relating.
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I couldn't have done it alone. Believe me, I tried. But the best thing I ever did was invest my time, energy and money in my growth and healing.
I would now like to bring this gift to you. If you are ready to understand the real reasons for your singleness, take courageous steps and embrace a new way of dating and relating, I'd love to work with you. I offer transformational 1:1 coaching packages to help you to break through and I host online small group courses, workshops and retreats. “You were a very special part of my journey in helping me not to run away in fear from this relationship” – coaching client, Anne, on announcing her engagement
“This experience of working with you has been really profound. You’re very, very good at what you do. We’ve got to the bottom of stuff that I’ve never been able to understand before” – coaching client, Rachel |
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Coaching Packages
Through my 1:1 coaching, I offer breakthroughs – breakthroughs in self-awareness and emotional mastery; breakthroughs in self-worth and self-confidence; breakthroughs in clarity; breakthroughs in healing; and breakthroughs in your romantic life.
Expect to overcome obstacles and face your deepest fears. Expect to feel held, supported and empowered to make the changes you’ve always wanted to make.
“I think my coaching with Katherine is one of the best investments in myself that I have ever made and I highly recommend her services" – Kathryn
“I’m over the moon. My boyfriend proposed this morning. Thank you, Katherine, for helping me to make this happen” – G.A., now planning her wedding
Expect to overcome obstacles and face your deepest fears. Expect to feel held, supported and empowered to make the changes you’ve always wanted to make.
“I think my coaching with Katherine is one of the best investments in myself that I have ever made and I highly recommend her services" – Kathryn
“I’m over the moon. My boyfriend proposed this morning. Thank you, Katherine, for helping me to make this happen” – G.A., now planning her wedding
BREAKTHROUGH PACKAGE A
£1050
or 3 x monthly payments of £380 Duration: Held and supported for 3 months Number of 60-min bi-monthly sessions: 6 Includes: *Pre-coaching questionnaire to pinpoint your goals and obstacles *Reflective, insightful exercises tailored to you *Regular accountability and support via email *Discounts on self-paced courses *Ongoing support through the How to Fall in Love Collective |
BREAKTHROUGH PACKAGE B
£1980
or 6 x monthly payments of £350 Duration: Held and supported for 6 months Number of 60-min bi-monthly sessions: 12 Includes: *Pre-coaching questionnaire to pinpoint your goals and obstacles *Reflective, insightful exercises tailored to you *Regular accountability and support via email *Discounts on self-paced courses *Ongoing support through the How to Fall in Love Collective |
Spacious Bundles & Single Sessions
From experience, clients who have invested in my Breakthrough Coaching Packages above, with coaching every two weeks, have benefited the most and progressed the fastest. However, we are all unique with individual needs. You may prefer a slower, more spacious approach. I offer spacious bundles with monthly coaching as well as powerful single sessions.
SINGLE SESSION
£200
Includes: *Pre-coaching questionnaire to pinpoint your goals and obstacles *One follow-up email exchange for accountability |
SPACIOUS BUNDLE - 3 MONTHLY SESSIONS
£555
or 3 x monthly payments of £190 Duration: 3 months (can be extended) Number of 60-min monthly sessions: 3 Includes: *Pre-coaching questionnaire to pinpoint your goals and obstacles *Reflective, insightful exercises tailored to you *Regular accountability and support via email |
If you would like to discuss a bespoke package with a different frequency of sessions or a combination of 1:1 coaching and a course, please get in touch. My coaching hours are weekdays 12 pm-6:15 pm, with occasional exceptions.
“Katherine’s coaching has been incredibly helpful and so worth the investment. With her guidance, I finally dared to embrace and love myself fully and believe that I am worthy of being loved. Not long after that, I entered into a new relationship. Suddenly, love came naturally to me” – Kate
I understand that 1:1 coaching may not be within your reach right now, which is why I have developed some transformational small group courses with group coaching, as well as courses that can be taken at your own pace. Explore my courses below.
“Katherine’s coaching has been incredibly helpful and so worth the investment. With her guidance, I finally dared to embrace and love myself fully and believe that I am worthy of being loved. Not long after that, I entered into a new relationship. Suddenly, love came naturally to me” – Kate
I understand that 1:1 coaching may not be within your reach right now, which is why I have developed some transformational small group courses with group coaching, as well as courses that can be taken at your own pace. Explore my courses below.
TRANSFORMATIONAL SMALL GROUP COURSES
"I have found the course to be incredibly powerful in changing my mindset and attitude. I feel like I am in an entirely different place than I was a month ago, mentally, emotionally and physically" - Gemma, course participant
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My signature How to Fall in Love transformational group programme has been changing women's lives and relationships for the better since its launch in 2017.
The programme has two pillars: Laying the Foundations and Date with Courage, Clarity and Confidence. First we do the vital inner work to build our healthy foundations. Then we take the show on the road, dating and relating with discernment and with the support of a community of women. Please email me on katherine@katherinebaldwin.com to express your interest in coaching or group programmes. |
TESTIMONIALS
"What’s changed for me since I started working with you, Katherine? Well, everything actually. I’ve had such a journey over the couple of years that I’ve been working with you, through the two courses - the Foundations course and Date with Courage, Clarity and Confidence - as well as doing 1:1 coaching with you. It has been truly transformational for me as an individual. I’ve gone from working overseas, working excessive hours all the time and just being completely dedicated to my work to moving back to Edinburgh to start my new life here. The work I’ve done with you has absolutely supported and helped me to go through that huge journey. So it’s been amazing" - Joyce
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“I would have absolutely no hesitation in recommending Katherine to help and guide you through the emotional roller coaster of dating and relationships. In the past, I tended to swing between not voicing my needs within a relationship, causing me to harbour resentments, to behaving in a way that the other would feel controlled. However, with Katherine’s support and encouragement, I am able to find a healthy balance of communicating my needs within a relationship and accepting my partners limitations. Talking of which, she has supported me with the massive realisation that men are human too! Through the acceptance of myself and my own flaws, I am now able to love and accept a man for who he is, warts and all!"
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Katherine has helped me to see the blocks I have had to intimacy/relationships and helped me to understand when it is my intuition or my fear that is telling me to run a mile. She has also helped me to understand my relationship triggers and work out if my reactions are rooted in the past or are about the here and now, encouraging me to take the time to process big feelings and act from a place of authenticity. Katherine’s approach is a delightful mix of wisdom, gentleness, honesty, authenticity and humour. If you want to find real authentic love, Katherine is the one to help you on that journey of discovery” – Catherine, 44, artist.
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"Katherine is great at listening to my jumbled up thoughts and being able to pick up on the one or two key problems which are really at the heart of the matter. When I talk to her about my partner and struggles we are facing, she is calm and considered, and conversation with her always brings me a sense of clarity.
When I feel hopeless about what to do next in my relationship, she shifts my focus onto the things I have the power to change. She encourages me to pursue the life I want and recognise my true value" - Claire, 33, journalist
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