The Book - How to Fall in Love - A 10-Step Journey to the Heart

My first book - How to Fall in Love - A 10-Step Journey to the Heart - is now available on Amazon Kindle and in beautiful paperback.

In the book, I take readers on a journey of transformation, helping them identify and change their relationship patterns, increase their self-confidence and self-esteem, let go of the fantasy of Mr Right and make bold choices so they flourish in their lives and find love. Click here for further details.

Here's what readers have said about it so far:

"Brilliant book, beautifully written with such honesty and straight from the heart. Fascinating insight into ourselves, love, relationships and self awareness, with so many truths that all of us can relate to and reflect upon."

"The definitive guide to creating the life and love you want, complete with spiritual and practical advice on how to get there. Beautifully written and honest to the core, this book is the one I wished I had when I started out in adult life."

"I had lots of lightbulb moments about why I'd been attracted to so many unsuitable men in the past. I wish I'd had this book in my thirties when I was looking for love! The step-by-step process she shares in the book is transformative and I'd certainly recommend this book to any of my single friends who are looking for a loving, meaningful relationship."

"It's about living a fuller, more authentic life, about knowing yourself and about learning to love yourself as you seek to fall in love with your ideal, or indeed your existing, partner whatever their gender or your sexuality. Katherine's style is real, honest and poignant as she takes you through her own journey and as she offers practical steps for you on yours."

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My next book

I am also writing a memoir of my journey from 40 to 45 as I stumble into what I call 'the baby gap' - that period of excruciating uncertainty that hits women as they crave motherhood just as their fertility runs out - and try to figure how to get out of it. The book explores themes common to women of my generation: singleness and childlessness, 'social infertility' (due to the absence of a suitable partner), the emptiness that can come with high achievement, commitment phobia, perfectionism, the futile search for Mr. Right and the definition of meaning and happiness.
I have written about this topic extensively in the media and discussed it on television and radio. See below for clippings:

I have discussed topics related to age-related infertility, IVF, dating and relationships on BBC Newsnight with Mariella Frostrup and Gavin Esler and have written about the issues I will cover in the book in Easy Living, The Sunday Times, The Guardian and The Daily Mail, on The Huffington Post, Canadian women's lifestyle site Just Charlee, We Are The City, Gateway Women and on my own blog, From Forty With Love.

I am available to write or speak on the phenomenon of the baby gap and related topics including dating and relationships, age-related infertility, egg freezing and single motherhood.